Looking for Love

People look for love in all the wrong places when the person sitting next to you may be the love that you are longing for.

You see, many people get into relationships with high expectations of their partner, of the relationship only to be disappointed because no one focuses on the work that is involved in making a relationship work. You have to make an effort. WE HAVE TO MAKE AN EFFORT TO MAKE OUR RELATIONSHIPS THE LOVE THAT WE HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR.

If we don't, guess what happens? The relationship is lack luster or IT FAILS. We may even become bitter, discouraged and start believing the lie that there is no such thing as true love. On the contrary true love is a reality for many couples who have taken the time to really work at their relationships.

These couples do insane things like really getting to know one another, and listen to each other's needs. They learn ways to communicate with one another effectively and do things to make their spouse feel loved and special. They are kind and show appreciation.

You see, there is no secret to having a long-lasting , successful relationship. Relationships are like everything else that we aspire to be great at. They take practice. They take work. And with practice and hard work we can build amazingly successful relationships with our spouse.